We often call Sex Blogging Superheroes “the most wonderful time of the year.” And, yes, it is hard not to hear that cheesy Christmas song in the background, complete with spinning and dancing.
We try to have a lot of fun over here at Kinkly. This year, like every other year we did have fun reading through sex blogs. But the problem is, this isn’t the most wonderful time of year. Not at all. In fact, for many people – and the world at large – this year has been pretty awful. This is the seventh iteration of the Sex Blogging Superheroes list, and it falls during a very bizarre, chaotic and stressful time.
So, first, can we just say a big “thank you” to all the bloggers and sex educators out there doing their thing in all this? We see you, and we hope this year’s list will help provide a little levity, deliver some much-needed new reading material and help connect you with other people out there on the web. If there’s anything we need this year, it’s to feel like we aren’t out here all alone. Please take care of yourselves, OK?
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On the bright side of things, despite all the things that have been cancelled and postponed over the past few months, the Sex Blogging Superheroes list is alive and well – and full of bloggers who are also persisting under tough circumstances. This year, bloggers got more votes than ever. Y’all are awesome!
To celebrate just how awesome all y’all are we decided to do something different for our Sex Blogging Superheroes imagery this year. Our header image is a mosaic created from the blogger profile photos of our Superheroes from this year! Zoom in to see if you can find your favorites!
Now, on to this year’s list! As in past years, this year’s top 100 is unranked. Why? Because sex blogs are a lot like sex toys – some are better than others but, it’s up to you to decide which one’s best for you.
Even so, we do crown a winner in each category. This seems like a better way to narrow things down for those searching for specific types of blogs. (You can also use the filter function on our Sex Blogger Directory for that.) Plus, we’d hate to pass up the chance to give out some prizes from Kinkly and Kinkly Shop. In case you missed it, you can read more about how we evaluate blogs here.
Since 2013, Kinkly has been compiling a list of top sex blogs using a combination of reader votes and internal assessment. There’s lots of amazing content out there, and we want to help people find it!
Sex Blogging Superhero Categories and Prizing for 2020
Readers’ Choice Award
This award is based on a combination of readers’ votes and Kinkly staff’s evaluation of the blog’s content. This sex-positive super-blogger gets $500 cash!
Top New Sex Blogs of 2020
This category is just for brand-new bloggers. These are blogs that are new to the scene and did not appear in last year’s top 100. This year, the top new blog will receive a $100 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.
Top Sex Toy Review Blogs of 2020
We know that many people rely on sex bloggers for quality sex toy reviews. This category celebrates the top blogs that include or focus on sex toy reviews. The winner of this category will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.
Top BIPOC Blogs of 2020
This goes to top bloggers who identify as BIPOC. As part of our commitment to supporting the Black Lives Matter movement, we wanted to make our site a better resource for people looking to read or work with bloggers in this space. The winner of this category will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.
Top LGBTQIA Blogs of 2020
This was a new category in 2018 and it’s still going strong! We’re looking to celebrate the best blogs with LGBTQIA content. The winner of this category will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.
Top Blogs for/by Men 2020
In the sex blogging community, women and femmes tend to rule! This category is for blogs written by men and geared toward a male audience. The winner of this category will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.
Top Erotica Blogs of 2020
This category will honor the top blogs for sexy erotic fiction – because we know a lot of our readers are into that! This year’s winner will receive a $150 gift card to the Kinkly Shop.
And now, without further ado, here are our top 100 sex blogs for 2020 (plus how to follow them on Twitter) – in alphabetical order.
Top Sex Blogs of 2020
Backwoods Bedroom @bkwoodsbedroom
bluesubmission @bluesubmission
Brigit Delaney’s Dirty Laundry
Couple of Secrets@Coupleofsecrets
D/scovering Kink@DscoveringKink
Deviant Succubus@DeviantSuccubus
Dildo or Dildont @Makeupandsin
Disabled Sex Guide @GuideDisabled
Feisty Fox Films @feistyfoxfilms
Forbidden Writings @Charlton_Tod
FuckBlogging (Sex Life and Everything) @sexlifeandevery
Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey
Joanne’s Sex Machine Reviews @joannesreviews
Juicy Sex Stories @juicysexstories
Life of a Kinky Wife @kinkywifelife
Little Switch Bitch @_LittleSBitch
Love is a Fetish @loveisafetish
Love Letters to a Unicorn @auntievice
Master’s Pleasing Bitch @MPBjulie
Mischa Eliot, Author of Smutty Works @mischa_eliot
Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews
Miss Smut Buttons @MissSmutButtons
MLSlavePuppet’s Slave Journey @MlSlave
Molly’s Daily Kiss @Mollysdailykiss
Naked at Our Age by Joan Price @JoanPrice
Princess Previews @PrincessPreview
Queer Courtesan @QueerCourtesan
Queer Earthling @threatganglia00
Quenby Creatives @QuenbyCreatives
Sex and Psychology @JustinLehmiller
Sex Ed 102 With Kara Sutra @Kara_Sutra
Sex for Every Body @sex4everybody
SexToyCollective @ST_Collective_
SexualAlpha: Sex Toy Reviews @thesexualalpha
Slutty Girl Problems @sluttygrlprobs
Squeaky Bedsprings @Squeaky_Springs
Submissive Feminist @SubFeminist
Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith
Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache
The Bambi Biohazard @BambiBiohazard
The Big Gay Review @thebiggayreview
The Black Pomegranate @BlkPomegranate
The MamaSutra – Lanae St.John @TheMamaSutra
The Intellectual Homosexual @IntellectHomo
The Redhead Bedhead @JoEllenNotte
Vanilla Free Sex @vanillafreesex
Walker Thornton @WalkerThornton
Witch of the Wands @WitchofTheWands
Readers’ Choice Award
Winner: Girl on the Net @girlonthenet
Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey
Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews
SexualAlpha: Sex Toy Reviews @thesexualalpha
Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith
Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache
Top New Sex Blogs of 2020
Winner: Life of a Kinky Wife @kinkywifelife
Disabled Sex Guide @GuideDisabled
Nikki Nelson Writes @NikkiNWrites
Quenby Creatives @QuenbyCreatives
Vanilla Free Sex @vanillafreesex
Top Sex Toy Review Blogs of 2020
Winner: Miss Ruby Reviews @MissRubyReviews
Infernal Monkey @infernal_monkey
SexualAlpha: Sex Toy Reviews @thesexualalpha
Slutty Girl Problems @sluttygrlprobs
Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith
Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache
Top BIPOC Blogs of 2020
Winner: Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache
Dildo or Dildont @Makeupandsin
FuckBlogging (Sex Life and Everything) @sexlifeandevery
The Black Pomegranate @BlkPomegranate
The Wench Works @thewenchworks
Top LGBTQIA Blogs of 2020
Winner: Arousability @arousibility
Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith
Super Smash Cache @supersmashcache
Witch of the Wands @WitchofTheWands
Top Blogs for/by Men 2020
Winner: SexualAlpha: Sex Toy Reviews @thesexualalpha
FuckBlogging (Sex Life and Everything) @sexlifeandevery
Forbidden Writings @Charlton_Tod
The Big Gay Review @thebiggayreview
The Intellectual Homosexual @IntellectHomo
Sex and Psychology @JustinLehmiller
Top Erotica Blogs of 2020
Winner: Sugarbutch Chronicles @MrSexsmith
Forbidden Writings @Charlton_Tod
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